counting down

One of them happy days :-)

Okay, so its been 3 years since i stepped my feet in this foreign land.....I hated the fact that i would be away from my family and at the same time the thought of being away from the "nagging parents" (i miss all the nagging it helped me grow) made it seem worthwhile...
So i embarked on this journey which was rather a life-changing experience for me...it was exciting at first,,and when i became home sick,i so hated being in this country.i got used to it as time went by and i adjusted, especially to the hot and humid weather,,,. i've learnt a lot for the past 3 years and i must say i am grateful to have been here..God knows what he does and ive grown physically,mentally and even spiritually during my stay here....ive grown to love this place partly because it never gets cold and because i hve met wonderful people along the way..(the list it too long for me to mention names)..i've faced hardships along the way, even heartbreaks but through it all, nothing compares to the way this phase has helped me grow and learn,, but most of all change to become a much better person. 

Judge not

i'm ready to love

Recently as i was going through my Twitter updates, i came across one tweet from Rev Run that totally made sense and made me say to myself.." Girl you need to gather yourself up and change". It read "when pple speak bad about others, its a sneaky way of tryin to praise themselves " mmmhhh  if you have never ever said something bad about someone and felt good about it afterwards, give yoself a pat on the back,i applaud you. i myself have done it before, i wil not deny it, not that i am proud of it but i feel ashamed, totally ashamed,,, it took me this long to realise how bad it is and all i was trying to do was to make myself look good, perfect...the very same bad things i say about others are e same things i hate about myself and i try and make myself seem like i am one little angel, or maybe i was jus tryna be acceptable im not sure...